In Mormon's epistle to his son Moroni, found in Moroni 8, we find a clear analysis of why both children and adults are baptized unto repentance, and not just baptized. The distinction is important. Baptism is not an end, but the beginning. For those who are accountable baptism is the first fruits of repentance, but we are also baptized so that we can continually repent! (Mormon 8:8).
The first of the three scriptures is found in D&C 68:25. It says that inasmuch as parents have children in Zion they should teach their children to
"understand
1) the doctrine of repentance,
2) faith in Christ the Son of the living God, and
3) baptism and the gift of the Holy Ghost,
when eight years old" (emphasis on understand added).
Our failure to teach children to understand results in the "sin being upon the heads of the parents."
Obviously without us understanding the doctrine of Christ (3 Nephi 11:32-40), we cannot teach our children to understand it before they are eight years old, before they are baptized. And even if we do understand, how do we teach it to young children so that they will understand it? Keep in mind that it is not enough to teach them about the doctrine of Repentance and Baptism.
Before answering the question of how we teach little children, let's look at the other two references. Both are in Moses 6, one in verse 57 and the other in verses 58-60, the latter being an emphasis on the first, but with the complete doctrine of Christ.
We cannot teach what we ourselves do not understand and have not experienced.
At the end of this post is a link to a series on repentance which will help you to understand so you can then teach your children to understand.
Before answering the question of how we teach little children, let's look at the other two references. Both are in Moses 6, one in verse 57 and the other in verses 58-60, the latter being an emphasis on the first, but with the complete doctrine of Christ.
"Wherefore teach it unto your children,
that all men, everywhere must repent,
or they can in no wise inherit the kingdom of God, for no unclean thing can dwell there..." (Moses 6:57).
Keep in mind that this is the Lord speaking by His own voice to Adam.
"Therefore, I give unto you a commandment,
to teach these things (vs. 47-57 of Moses 6) freely unto your children, saying:
That by reason of transgression cometh the fall,
which fall bringeth death, and
inasmuch as ye were born into the world by water, and blood, and the spirit, which I have made, and so become of dust a living soul,
even so ye must be born again into the kingdom of heaven,
of water,
and of the Spirit,
and be cleansed by blood, even the blood of mine only begotten;
that ye might be sanctified from all sin,
and enjoy the words of eternal life in this world,
and eternal life in the world to come, even immortal glory.
For by the water ye keep the commandment;
by the Spirit ye are justified,
and by the blood ye are sanctified" (Moses 6:58:60).
Note how specific this commandment to teach is--He even tells us what to say!
The key to teaching this to young children in found in Moses 6:55-56, wherein the Lord tells Adam that our children are conceived in sin and that as they grow up sin conceiveth in their hearts and "they taste the bitter, that they may know to prize the good. And it is given unto them to know good from evil wherefore they are agents unto themselves..." (emphasis added).
Now remembering that good (as defined by God) represents the righteousness of God and evil is everything contrary to the righteousness of God, it becomes a matter of making a choice between one or the other.
Note how specific this commandment to teach is--He even tells us what to say!
The key to teaching this to young children in found in Moses 6:55-56, wherein the Lord tells Adam that our children are conceived in sin and that as they grow up sin conceiveth in their hearts and "they taste the bitter, that they may know to prize the good. And it is given unto them to know good from evil wherefore they are agents unto themselves..." (emphasis added).
Now remembering that good (as defined by God) represents the righteousness of God and evil is everything contrary to the righteousness of God, it becomes a matter of making a choice between one or the other.
Repentance, then is choosing only the righteousness of God. They only have two choices--Good or Evil as only God defines Good and Evil.
Repentance is not about being good, but about choosing good--the goodness of God.
So we teach our children about the fall and the consequences of the fall, how it applies to them individually (death and hell), and what is necessary to overcome the effects of the fall, repentance! which is possible only because of Christ and His Atonement.
We teach them that they must choose between Satan and Christ. We teach them about the good king and the evil king wannabe.
Repentance, we teach them, is turning to Christ and choosing His righteousness and goodness, being born again (baptized by water) and being changed (by Him) from our lost and fallen state to a state of righteousness (baptized by fire or Holy Ghost). (Mosiah 27:25).
Repentance comes from understanding and experiencing our condition and turning to Christ to change it. It is a lifelong process for all of us. Young children can understand that they have only one of two choices: good or evil. As long as we are turning to Christ and trusting Him, relying on His merits alone, we are repenting. When we turn away and rely on any of our merits we are not repenting and we are in a state of wickedness.
Repentance comes from understanding and experiencing our condition and turning to Christ to change it. It is a lifelong process for all of us. Young children can understand that they have only one of two choices: good or evil. As long as we are turning to Christ and trusting Him, relying on His merits alone, we are repenting. When we turn away and rely on any of our merits we are not repenting and we are in a state of wickedness.
And you must teach the word of God concerning repentance and not the teachings of men.
Aid to help teach young children to understand the doctrine of repentance.
Once we have taught them the doctrine of the two ways, we then bring up our children in light and truth and not in the traditions of men (D&C 93:39-40). We teach them, using the word of God. We teach them to feast upon the words of Christ. We teach them to not put their trust in men, any men, not even the prophet. We teach them to look to God and live.
We teach them that repentance is not about being good, but about choosing good--choosing Christ.
See series on Repentance.
After we have taught them to understand, keep in mind that there is a difference between understanding and actually repenting. Are you repenting? What will you tell your children when they ask?
Clark, each time I read your blog I come away with seed to sow for the coming days as I contemplate and ponder what you're teaching. The thing that continues to startle me, though, is how often your words introduce me to a familiar seed but one that bears new fruit. For example, in this post, the way you brought two concpets together helped me see a fundamental truth in a new light:
ReplyDelete1. We are here to learn to choose good over evil.
2. We are not capable of "good" as the scriptures speak of it, which is a quality of Christ.
So choosing "good" does not mean choosing to "be good," which is how I have thought of it all my life. Choosing "good" means choosing Christ. All the good is His, for He is the vine. And I laughed out loud when I read, "the evil king wannabe." But isn't that describing me? I am the "evil king wannabe-good." I want to be saved for my own goodness (righteousness). How cleverly you have shown how the devil is the prototype of the unsaved man, even all of us who seek salvation from works. Amazing! Thank you.